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New Year’s Resolutions

1/30/2015

Most of us by the end of January have slipped a time or two. Don’t beat yourself up. Pick up and energetic tool and turn that thinking around.

Life happens, we go numb, we slip, and then regroup. See that as the best New Year’s Resolution after all---the regrouping is the victory of spirit you have always desired. There is no time or space. Everything is an illusion---so make a new New Year’s Resolution that you will A.S.A.P. regroup and start anew with destroying and uncreating the negative experience or charge and embrace a happier and healthier you.

Your life is created on an energetic level first. You work on that as if you we drying up a lake of negative waters, the source of you limiting beliefs. Even though it appears they are still persisting in the physical reality the source is drying up. Eventually the limitations dry up and are starved and you are done with that illusion (because there is nothing feeding the illusion).

Will you allow yourself to see the big picture and focus on drying up the source?

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Yes, BUT…

1/23/2015

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How often have you heard yourself say that? When I hear that come out of my mouth I know I’m letting my ego run my life. It’s a signal to me that because my mind can’t figure out a solution then I HAVE to stay stuck.

Instead pose the question: “How can I change this even a little?” It might be that I need to notice my objections and then keep asking myself which energetic tool I should use to shift this stubborn point of view.

Remember the ego wants to keep us small. I was listening to my mind chatter this morning and it was going on-and-on about how I was never going to break through my financial glass ceiling. It was actually trying to convince itself how it could operate “okay” in the new job I’m taking. This job is a step back in some ways, and a release from the abusive place where I’m contracting my services.

I took a breath and thought “isn’t that interesting.” I posed the question “what if this new job was just a pit-stop until I recovered from all I’ve been going through?” Then I saw possibilities and guess who chimed in? That’s right my ego saying: “Yes, BUT…”

I thanked it for sharing; and I know if I have to write this blog I will have to walk my talk and change my “Yes, BUT” to “Yes, AND.” Yes, and I will use my tools and embrace the infinite possibilities that are out there for me.

Will you change your “Yes, BUT” to a “Yes, AND” today?

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When to walk away

1/16/2015

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Sometimes we think the right thing is to walk away from say an abusive employer, however, sometimes you can’t financially.

What do you do?
What I started doing was looking at what I did not want to see, what was bugging me, and what was weighing heavily on my chest.

I showed up for work and sometime I had to leave it the abuse was off the chart. Mostly, I worked and used the opportunity to put some money away whilst I looked for other work. I used my energetic tools and simply noticed the opinions of others as they told me what I should do.

I used each moment there as a way to do my emotional clearing around not being valued, abused, betrayed, and my personal beliefs/limitations that there is NOTHING else out there.

I could make them wrong---and that will only create more of the same in the next job. As I wait for another job or a bit of money to help out and keep me out of total fear, I show up and do what I can that is reasonable. There are 2 deal breakers and the rest is a learning experience.

I have to be honest with myself. I have to push myself to look for work and to seek out other opportunities even if they are outside of their comfort zone. Keep in mind, life happens and nothing is perfect which is why I have 2 deal breakers. So, until I can balance all my energy and am out of polarity---this works for me. My goal always to return to knowing I am okay and perfect.

What will you do when faced with abuse?

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Holding onto 3D when you are shifting into 5D

1/9/2015

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As you raise your vibration 3D prognosticators and healers will not be able to help you. For example, you can only read a person if you are on the same level or above them. You waste your time and money looking for lower vibrating people to help you. You actually hurt yourself because you end up lowering your vibration to maintain the illusion that they can help you. Also, when people whom we depend upon to help us or co-create with us are stuck in 3D we are at choice---wait for them to change or promote ourselves---it’s called taking action through our fears.

If we take action than we are responsible---it’s easy to make our success contingent upon a 3Der to shift----“It’s all their fault” we whine. In reality we are contributing to their stuckness because of our energetic expectations of them to change (and yet, we don’t want them to change cause there goes our excuse); and when they are not ready to change we set up a pattern of expectation/disappointment/blame/shame.

When you feel yourself blaming others or your circumstances, stop and ask what can you do?

Perhaps, it’s advertising and charging the cost as a leap of faith that the money will be there; or, maybe it’s setting boundaries when in the past it hadn’t worked and do it again and again and again until it works---and do it with love.

Focus on what you are afraid of and love yourself through it---otherwise, when you make others the reason you are not succeeding you lover your vibration.

It’s your choice.

As I started to judge a friend who was blaming his lack of success on the stuckness and limitation of others---my hearing failed and clarity revealed itself.

“Alisha, you need to advertise and promote yourself and trust.” “NO,” my cognitive brain retorted. “Yes, my dear… you are giving your power to limitation, obstacles, and blaming circumstances” I heard in reply.

I was NOT being responsible. The judgment I had about my friend faded and I saw what I was doing. My fear of failure was screaming for me to stay small. Thank goodness for energetic tools to deal with these limitations.

Now you are at choice---stay in 3D or shift your energy to the 5D train and soar. Remember, you only get to stay in 5D if you choose to take RESPONSIBILITY for your life.

It’s okay to be grown up and responsible----RESPONSIBILITY is really promoting the gifts the universe gave you to help humanity. That’s easy----you are gifted and it’s childish NOT to share. Even if your gift is a warm smile.

Will you pick up and energetic tool to help you blast through your limitations?

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Irritations or “Thanks BUT”

1/2/2015

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Well, my phone died a slow and painful death for me. That’s how it seemed…money was not in the budget to purchase a new one. Then a miracle, someone gifted me a phone. That’s when the irritation started amping up---I thought I was on top of it; and, what a great clearing opportunity.

The new phone didn’t work which meant days of “live chatting” with people whose first language is not English. Then, hours of internet researching on how to use a windows based phone instead of android.

Then discovering that my favorite two apps are not compatible with the new phone----spin out. On top of that hours at the phone store trying to copy my contacts onto my new phone----all in all 4 days gone and not productive---or, so I thought

What I learned was I would spin out, follow instructions, see them not work, go back, regroup, spin out, blow up energy, and always return to gratitude for not being “that nasty or impatient with the customer service people.” The phone worked but then the texting wouldn’t and then…. then… well, by then I was talking to people whom I could barely understand for more than one reason----the irritation was mounting.

I noticed even when I had to tell my friend that I might have to return the phone I, also, wanted my friend to know I was deeply grateful for the phone and all I was learning through the experience.

The gift in the gift was seeing how each time I truly desired to return to serenity---no matter what. I kept watching my irritation and asking how I could turn it around. I turned the “thanks BUT” into a “THANKS AND…”

What will you do when irritation and the “thanks buts” attack---and they will?

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New Year’s Resolutions

Yes, BUT…

When to walk away

Holding onto 3D when you are shifting into 5D

Irritations or “Thanks BUT”

Alisha Lewis

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