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Conflict

2/27/2015

Oops, that’s life for you; or, is it. Everyone is entitled to holding onto their limitations and suffering. You get to choose in the moment if you want to see them as stuck and argue with them; or, shrug and let them stay stuck.

Everything is an opportunity to choose. Will you let that irritating co-worker get on your nerves or simply say: “okay,” and shrug and walk away or say: “well, it seems like the wrong choice to me; but, have it your way.”

I simply let people know their choice doesn’t feel right for me. I acknowledge if they are the boss I will do it their way and I then let it go. I will never be able to change them.

I can sure change my reaction. Will you engage or let it go?

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Acceptance

2/20/2015

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Oh my goodness, doesn’t that feel heavy at times? That’s the energy of 3D energy attached to the word “acceptance.” Instead of buying the mass consciousness definition of the word meaning “face it you lost.” Turn it around to “on your make, get set, go.”

See it as your new start point. Accept the new position you are in and get ready to choose to shift that point of view or limitation.

Ask questions like: “How can I turn this around?” And, “What action can I take to raise my spirits?”

Then “go” keep asking and inching forward. That’s the ticket---you can do it.

Will you buy the new 5D definition of “acceptance” or cling to the limitations of 3D today?

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Surrender

2/13/2015

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How many times has the idea of surrendering and admitting you are powerless feel like you are giving up?

It’s not. It may feel that way. It’s a process of experiencing our anger or resentment and letting it go. Not forgiving the other person (we can only forgive ourselves); it’s more letting of the idea that we have to understand “why” it happened and the pull to rectify it or enlighten the other person.

Trust in the process. You are exactly where you need to be. Pick up your pen and now decide to drop it. That’s it---a decision. Every time you decide to pick up your obsession---surrender, laugh and drop it even if it’s just for a second.

Remember you’ll cognitively never figure out the “why” and can never get the other person to change really. Only they can decide to change.

Will you decide to surrender today---just decide to place your focus on what makes you happy (and then you are reprieved if only for a second)!

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Gratitude no matter what…

2/6/2015

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I realized I created “drama” when I wanted to leave a situation or relationship. I couldn’t just honor my knowing enough to leave and/or create a new job. I still do to a degree which is what led me to this awareness.

There is a part of me that believes that I have to be BEYOND miserable in a situation in order for me to leave. It doesn’t matter where or from whom I got this belief the fact remains there it is/was in ALL my remembrances.

As I quickly reflected I, also, saw how a few weeks or months prior I was being nudged to “leave” and even given opportunities to “leave” or change positions. I didn’t (the reason doesn’t matter) the behavior does---I created drama in order to leave.

Only I took my old habit with me. Decades later, I’m a bit wiser and now it just took a few weeks for me to see the sign and plan my exit. Am I leaving for an ideal situation, NO---I am leaving with awareness and determination to create what I do desire and this new situation will provide the space I need.

NOW, I finally “get it”----Gratitude---if I had been GRATEFUL instead of resentful for the “drama” I CREATED I’d be further along on my journey. I am GRATEFUL I heard the call and am grateful the universe chose to squeeze me for only a few weeks before I dove into action to extricate myself. I AM grateful for my moments of compression.

I thought by doing nothings I wouldn’t screw things up more---quite the contrary---I did mess it up more---I held onto resentment and anger. Thank you past, present and this moments of awareness. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you---I release you with gratitude. I let go of looking down the “what-might-have-been road” and now embrace the “what-can-I-create-now road.” It was a lesson hard-learned.

Will you shift your point of view today enough to say “Thank you” for whatever shows up, and then ask “how can I allow myself to accept and extricate myself today?”

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Conflict

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Gratitude no matter what…

Alisha Lewis

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