The operative is “their” life. It really has nothing to do with you. Instead if you like what they have let yourself think: “that’s for me---universe how can I have that?”
Then let the universe guide you. Be happy for the person and trust the process. It’s the Law of Attraction. Yes, it takes patience---and, maybe that’s what you need to blow up and return to sender to energetically clear your blocks.
Will you say: That’s for me” today? Then laugh and be happy---you placed your order.