If we take action than we are responsible---it’s easy to make our success contingent upon a 3Der to shift----“It’s all their fault” we whine. In reality we are contributing to their stuckness because of our energetic expectations of them to change (and yet, we don’t want them to change cause there goes our excuse); and when they are not ready to change we set up a pattern of expectation/disappointment/blame/shame.
When you feel yourself blaming others or your circumstances, stop and ask what can you do?
Perhaps, it’s advertising and charging the cost as a leap of faith that the money will be there; or, maybe it’s setting boundaries when in the past it hadn’t worked and do it again and again and again until it works---and do it with love.
Focus on what you are afraid of and love yourself through it---otherwise, when you make others the reason you are not succeeding you lover your vibration.
It’s your choice.
As I started to judge a friend who was blaming his lack of success on the stuckness and limitation of others---my hearing failed and clarity revealed itself.
“Alisha, you need to advertise and promote yourself and trust.” “NO,” my cognitive brain retorted. “Yes, my dear… you are giving your power to limitation, obstacles, and blaming circumstances” I heard in reply.
I was NOT being responsible. The judgment I had about my friend faded and I saw what I was doing. My fear of failure was screaming for me to stay small. Thank goodness for energetic tools to deal with these limitations.
Now you are at choice---stay in 3D or shift your energy to the 5D train and soar. Remember, you only get to stay in 5D if you choose to take RESPONSIBILITY for your life.
It’s okay to be grown up and responsible----RESPONSIBILITY is really promoting the gifts the universe gave you to help humanity. That’s easy----you are gifted and it’s childish NOT to share. Even if your gift is a warm smile.
Will you pick up and energetic tool to help you blast through your limitations?