Sometimes I find myself in power struggles---quite often people want me to cave and give my power to them which sadly I have and still do at times.
There is a difference between Giving them my power and letting them THINK they have won. I can simply say to them that I understand their Point of View and then make an excuse to leave.
They think they won the argument. I have denied them my power. I still get to decide what my boundaries and thoughts are on a certain subject.
It’s really funny when you think about it---speaking for myself if I think of it as a FUN game I’m better at letting go of the energetic insistence and intrusion into my life.
It’s a work in progress for me---I still tend to try to control how people interact with me. That’s fear of my making them my god or higher power.
Will you see it as a FUN game and not a true power struggle where you might loose yourself?
There is a difference between Giving them my power and letting them THINK they have won. I can simply say to them that I understand their Point of View and then make an excuse to leave.
They think they won the argument. I have denied them my power. I still get to decide what my boundaries and thoughts are on a certain subject.
It’s really funny when you think about it---speaking for myself if I think of it as a FUN game I’m better at letting go of the energetic insistence and intrusion into my life.
It’s a work in progress for me---I still tend to try to control how people interact with me. That’s fear of my making them my god or higher power.
Will you see it as a FUN game and not a true power struggle where you might loose yourself?
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