KC: Even though I give freely I tend to lie to myself and resent the people I’m helping. I’m open to changing that.
KC: Even though I never saw the resentments it’s okay because I can see it now and can begin to change it.
KC: Even though I feel guilty for giving and resenting I see the pattern and want to change it
EB: I give and I give and I think I’m being virtuous
SE: But I resent them because they don’t hire me and pay me
UE: I freely give when people don’t ask me for a session
UN: I butt in where I wasn’t invited
CH: I wasn’t invited
CB: I have the expectation that they will hire me
UA: I get disappointed
TH: I become resentful
EB: If it’s for Free it HAS to be for fun and with out strings
SE: If I am not asked I need to butt out
UE: I can merely say I do something that might help them and give them my card
UN: I need to them let it go
CH: I come off as desperate
CB: I then resent when rejected
UA: I give myself permission to breathe and hand them my card
TH: Real salesmen have to make hundreds of calls to make one sale
EB: I give myself permission to invest in me
SE: I freely give my cards
UE: I freely give 10% for free
UN: I give myself permission to stop resenting others when I’m the one with the expectations
CH: I forgive myself for not seeing this
CB: I want the best for them and the best for me
UA: The best for us
TH: Is for me to butt out
Breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth- ahhhh
CB: Everyday and in everyway I give myself permission to give cards out and let go of expectations.
When fear starts creeping in tap on the UE and say: “I give myself permission to not expect a call for my services---that the perfect people will come to me at the right time.