KC: Even though I’m clear on what I don’t want—that’s what keeps showing up in my life. I’m open to changing this.
KC: Even though I’m doing all this spiritual work on myself I can’t seem to find the right person. I’m open to looking at this differently.
KC: Even though I say I want “this and that” and the opposite keeps showing up---maybe I need to look at my intention.
EB: I say I want a loving spiritual partner
SE: But do I
UE: or, do I want to be rescued
UN: or, do I want to keep staying the victim
CH: or, do I want to find excuses not to be happy
CB: am I afraid of intimacy
UA: Just what are the qualities I want in someone
TH: What can I do to instill those qualities in me
EB: I can let go of my intimacy issues
SE: I can look at each quality I want in another and become that myself
UE: The more authentic I become with myself
UN: The more authentically I can show up in a relationship
CH: Not morphing and turning myself inside out to be what they expect me to be
CB: How real am I with people
UA: How real do I allow people to be with me
TH: Do I judge and criticize
EB: Do I expect them to be perfect
SE: Am I willing to be of service and help them grow
UE: That means accepting them as they are
UN: That means accepting me where I am
CH: I can start with being my own spiritual partner
CB: Committed to being authentically me
UA: Committed to loving myself through everything life throws my way
TH: Accepting myself and showing up with integrity
Breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth- ahhhh
CB: WOW, that’s the type of partner I want and it starts with me
When the old patterns start creeping in tap on the UE and say: “I love and accept myself just the way I am and I choose to let my authentic self shine no matter what. How does it get any better than that?”