Sometimes we think we’re destined to be with someone because of familiarity or attraction with someone. It simply means we've spent more lifetimes with this person and have liked playing with them. For the full article see my 12-12-14 Blog/POV article on at www.ShiftWideOpen.com In the meantime let’s borrow benefits and tap some charge off Pt 3 karmic contract
KC: Even though I want to hold onto the idea we are meant to be together in this lifetime---I’m ready to face the fact that he’s not committing and I need to let him go
KC: Even though I would love him to hurt as much as I do---another part of me wants to thank him for what he did for me
KC: Even though I’m still confused a bit and don’t know if I can let him go----I am willing to love myself enough to stop the pain and conflict
EB: I can’t let him go
SE: I want to hurt him
UE: All these conflicting feelings
UN: I want them to stop
CH: I choose to start letting perspective in
CB: I’m sorry, please forgive me ___________ (name of person)
UA: I love you ________ I have to let you go
TH: Thank you for opening my heart
EB: It hurts and I do feel betrayed
SE: I did want you or someone to know how much your rejection hurt
UE: I feel like I’m going to die
UN: And yet, the amount of love I experienced
CH: Well, I admit that you were the one to open my heart
CB: I’m sorry, please forgive me
UA: I know I swore that I would NEVER let you go
TH: I’m sorry, please forgive me
EB: I love you enough NOT to diminish the love that we share
SE: Some people are in our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime
UE: You were my intense reason and season
UN: Thank you for opening my heart
CH: Thank you for the intensity and passion
CB: Now I return all my anger to you
UA: I allow it to surface and kaboom---I’m blowing it up with vengeance and fury
TH: Knowing that as it exploded the anger will be transmuted and the energy returned in neutral
Breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth- ahhhh
CB: I allow myself to feel the feelings and blow them up---returning the energy in neutral
When the limiting thoughts come back tap on the UE and say or think: I give myself permission to repay the loving kindness of his opening my heart by blowing up my pain and returning the energy in neutral