Sometimes we think we’re destined to be with someone because of familiarity or attraction with someone. It simply means we've spent more lifetimes with this person and have liked playing with them. For the full article see my 12-12-14 Blog/POV article on at www.ShiftWideOpen.com In the meantime let’s borrow benefits and tap some charge off Pt 1 Narcissists
KC: Even though I thought we were perfect and can’t believe I didn’t see how self-absorbed my partner was, is and is becoming---I am open to letting my anger and other emotions go
KC: Even though I thought I had finally found the perfect partner and am shocked at what I see in my partner
KC: Even though I finally see the true nature of my partner---I feel so betrayed and stupid---I honor and acknowledge all my feelings
EB: I can’t believe my partner had me fooled
SE: How could I have been so blind
UE: How did I not see how self-absorbed he is
UN: I feel so ashamed that I didn’t see it before
CH: How come others didn’t tell me
CB: He seemed so loving and attentive
UA: Now he’s controlling and isolating
TH: He only wants me to be with him
EB: At first it was cute
SE: Now it’s annoying
UE: It’s all about him
UN: Sulking, babyish behavior
CH: I don’t know what to do
CB: Is it me
UA: AM I a bad person
TH: He says I am
EB: That I’m not loving anymore
SE: I can’t stand this manipulation
UE: I can’t stand that he can’t see his behavior
UN: I don’t know what to do
CH: All this frustration
CB: All this judgment
UA: All these conflicting emotions
TH: All this doubt
Breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth- ahhhh
CB: I allow myself to feel all my emotions ---to let them all come to the surface
When the limiting thoughts come back tap on the UE and say or think: I did nothing wrong it is just a learning lesson and I’m open to more being revealed