Soul-mate/twin-flame “why is he/she so controlling?”
Sometimes we think we’re destined to be with someone because of familiarity or attraction with someone. It simply means we've spent more lifetimes with this person and have liked playing with them. For the full article see my 12-12-14 Blog/POV article on at www.ShiftWideOpen.com In the meantime let’s borrow benefits and tap some charge off Pt 2 Narcissists
KC: Even though I have all this self-doubt and conflicting emotions---I’m open to seeing the truth
KC: Even though my partner is different now and maybe I was blinded before ---it still doesn’t excuse what is going on now---I want to see things clearly
KC: Even though I feel betrayed and abandoned and trapped in a crazy relationship---I’m open to solutions presenting themselves
EB: I’m afraid
SE: Who will I be without him
UE: I don’t do being alone very well
UN: Why doesn’t he love me the way I am
CH: Why does he keep saying that I don’t love him
CB: He’s different
UA: He doesn’t see how controlling and one sided he is
TH: I’m doubting myself
EB: Maybe he’s right
SE: WHAT
UE: Just because I didn’t see his narcissistic ways before
UN: Doesn’t mean it’s my fault
CH: I needed to learn that one-sided relationships are not what I want
CB: I needed to learn to love myself enough to walk away
UA: Or, to not let it bother me
TH: He is in my life for a reason
EB: So that I could return to loving myself
SE: Just because he is not physically or verbally abusive
UE: Doesn’t mean it’s not a dysfunctional relationship
UN: It’s a very toxic co-dependent relationship
CH: I choose to take care of myself
CB: I choose to stand firm in my knowing
UA: That if my partner doesn’t change
TH: It’s okay for me to change my mind
Breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth- ahhhh
CB: I am open to being alone if I have to---I am open to letting all the fear come up so I can transmute it
When the limiting thoughts come back tap on the UE and say or think: I give myself permission to look at my side which is how willing am I to forgo my happiness one more time in my life---if they change so can I
Sometimes we think we’re destined to be with someone because of familiarity or attraction with someone. It simply means we've spent more lifetimes with this person and have liked playing with them. For the full article see my 12-12-14 Blog/POV article on at www.ShiftWideOpen.com In the meantime let’s borrow benefits and tap some charge off Pt 2 Narcissists
KC: Even though I have all this self-doubt and conflicting emotions---I’m open to seeing the truth
KC: Even though my partner is different now and maybe I was blinded before ---it still doesn’t excuse what is going on now---I want to see things clearly
KC: Even though I feel betrayed and abandoned and trapped in a crazy relationship---I’m open to solutions presenting themselves
EB: I’m afraid
SE: Who will I be without him
UE: I don’t do being alone very well
UN: Why doesn’t he love me the way I am
CH: Why does he keep saying that I don’t love him
CB: He’s different
UA: He doesn’t see how controlling and one sided he is
TH: I’m doubting myself
EB: Maybe he’s right
SE: WHAT
UE: Just because I didn’t see his narcissistic ways before
UN: Doesn’t mean it’s my fault
CH: I needed to learn that one-sided relationships are not what I want
CB: I needed to learn to love myself enough to walk away
UA: Or, to not let it bother me
TH: He is in my life for a reason
EB: So that I could return to loving myself
SE: Just because he is not physically or verbally abusive
UE: Doesn’t mean it’s not a dysfunctional relationship
UN: It’s a very toxic co-dependent relationship
CH: I choose to take care of myself
CB: I choose to stand firm in my knowing
UA: That if my partner doesn’t change
TH: It’s okay for me to change my mind
Breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth- ahhhh
CB: I am open to being alone if I have to---I am open to letting all the fear come up so I can transmute it
When the limiting thoughts come back tap on the UE and say or think: I give myself permission to look at my side which is how willing am I to forgo my happiness one more time in my life---if they change so can I
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